Is he worth all that ?

Most of the time after a break up we spend our time thinking about every little detail. We also cry, hug our teddybears, and eat a lot of ice-cream. But is he worth that ? Is he worth gaining all those pounds, and getting puffy eyes, when ( if you come back down to earth ) you know you won't get him back ?
Don't think so.
Most of the girls give Him another chance, because He asks for it, and He knows how to do that. My opinion is that never give a guy a second chance, no matter how good he was in bed, or how beautiful he made you feel.
See, after a break up you think about every detail you did, all those memories.. but you never come back to That Thought, why you broke up.
Who was it who broke up with you,  if it was him, then the first thing you have to make yourself believe is that he can't do better, but You can.
If it was you who broke up with him, then there just had to be a reason for it. And eventually you have to come to your sences and remember that , that was the right thing to do.

Don't cry, laugh. Don't eat ice-cream, let him do that. And don't watch sad movies, the whole world is full of comedies.
And Be Sure To Listen To Energizing Music ! :)

How long ?

How long can we wait for a guy, after making a first move ? If you have to see him everyday, could you go on forever, pretending that nothing ever happened ? Could you separate your heart from your mind, or your mind from your heart ?


See, usually what we do is that, we make the first move, after months of flirting. Maybe it wasn't flirting .. maybe it was just being friendly, and you got too caught up to it. But you can never be sure. That is why we wait, and wait, and wait. Because while we were growing up, we used to dream about everything, the perfect wedding, the perfect wedding dress, the perfect man. What if, for you he comes along, but thenagain for him you're just another game, to play.
If you have waited forever, you think 10 more minutes won't hurt. Maybe it will. Maybe you should think about the times you have had together, as friends, or would that just make you more confused ? Then you think everything was fine, maybe even perfect, before the first attempt, or were you just a little late on your attempt ?
You know guys, they can always blame it on you, and you can never blame it on them. If we could separate our hearts from our minds, that would give us power. Would we want that power ?
Maybe .. the only thing to do is to give up in your mind, but keep on hoping in your heart.
Just incase.